Tyrese Gibson has been on my mind and in my heart this week. And as a woman of the Lord, I must say that my prayer list has been edited to move Tyrese to the top. The Fast and the Furious actor has been just that—fast and furious—as negative headlines swarm around him. From harassing his daughter with a high-flying banner of too little, too late devotion to singing in court, it seems as though brother Tyrese is unraveling.

So I’m focused on letting Tyrese know that getting help is OK and, at this point, mandatory. Check out this week’s Judge of Characters, a digital show that focuses on topics Black Twitter is hashtagging and allows me to do my favorite thing in the world: judge.